Usually I write a blog when I feel inspired, by something or someone I might've come across, sometime. Which is probably why I dont write that much, but this one is not inspirational, the reason of it is I feel compelled, and have been aching to write something about, obviously out of scratch, that is my life, and its now or never!
Love is probably something we can define ourselves, without the need of asking or confirming, we can experience it when we are among loved ones, we can give it when someone close to us needs it, and there is so much that we can do with love, the only unconditional love is between the mother and children, while we all think that it is this way, because of obvious reasons such as, the mother has seen her children grow up, has played with them and has had unforgettable moments because of them; I think perhaps, a little differently.
But it is not that very different though, and also it is only a conception, the conception that the reason why mothers love their children unconditionally is because, perhaps they dont even know, that they know their children very well, so much that even if this world changes them in so many ways, their children will always remain who they are from within. Dont start jumping around with joy because you thought the same thing, things will start to get a little complex. It is indeed very difficult to define what that is, because it is deep within the feelings of a mother, that it is just there, that belief that their sons and daughters will always be the same to them. A little example on how can this be this way: imagine a son to a mother who was very loyal and obedient when he was just a kid, but as he grows up and starts living in a world that he has built, has become ignorant and rash, thoughtless and has no conscience what so ever, for the mother though, he remains the same no matter how much he changes, and how hateful he becomes, the mother somehow truly knows who he is, behind his worldly mask.
Lets get to the complex part, the love between them can be applied to almost in all kind of relationships, to such an extent that one cant even imagine, that it was this way all time. Consider the most complex form of love that to this date has not been defined properly, the love between a boy and a girl. When we think of this, we mostly think of movies and romance, flowers and endless fields, what we fail to think about is that love has got nothing to do with any of it, it is more worldly than we think. The truth is both of them can never love each other the same way, it will always be one of them who loves the other more, and hence the balance. But it does not end here folks. For those who think this is not the truth, will have to think again because, whether they like it or not, they are already living in a dream world, that they have designed prior to their requirements, and they have done simply because, everyone does it with someone, and its all fun. Sorry for sounding so bromide, it is merely because I am not in a relationship like most. Allow me to explain. You cant get to know this from someone like you.
The reason why I say this is because, I have come to a conclusion, which is always subject to change as you can never say anything of this world and its changing nature. But it somehow fits, and I cannot change anyone's view but merely give my own. Loving someone special is like being in love with the world, the difference lies in knowing and adopting this truth, that you cannot truly love someone if you are not prepared and are afraid to face the consequences, if you are not confident in your love, thus if you are not any of these then you are susceptible, so much that you become hesitant to do whatever you can, and by any means to obtain that which you love; be warned, that if you feel this way, it is not love, it is merely, obsession, that blinds you from this world and its people, more importantly, the people who love and care for you. But I shall not leave you here reader, I shall tell you what true love is, or try atleast.
Remember far back when I told you about unconditional love, well, that my friends is true love, and it is not necessary that it be between a mother and her child, it could amongst anyone, for anyone, and by anyone, that is the complexity of it, ironically also the simplicity of it, or maybe not. You get the point, if you truly love someone, then be sure about it, because the journey that you shall go on from here will be the one in which, you are the true lover, who does whatever he/she can to prove it, and in the process tries to understand how much it really is, and on the other hand the one that you truly love, will spend their life trying to understand your love, and in the process try to love you equally as much, with both of you failing at every attempt, but only to realize the greater truth, that cannot be found here in this world, and the journey shall take you there, to your common victory. Indeed, very few are those who get to go on such journeys! So remember, no two lovers can equally love each other, but obviously compromise, we are so good at that.
If somehow you feel that this is not the case, then try to not go against the odds in which the world tries to stop the both of you, if you fail, you will realize then it was not your love but your obsession, in which your partner was merely an accomplice, for what other reason would you want to go against the world, other than fear! People who love do not fear, and the people who truly love, understand that fear, and will always believe, will always love, will always have faith and shall take it to their graves if they can, for their love is unconditional, and unshaken. So the question is: Are you up for it? For it is the road least taken!
Love is probably something we can define ourselves, without the need of asking or confirming, we can experience it when we are among loved ones, we can give it when someone close to us needs it, and there is so much that we can do with love, the only unconditional love is between the mother and children, while we all think that it is this way, because of obvious reasons such as, the mother has seen her children grow up, has played with them and has had unforgettable moments because of them; I think perhaps, a little differently.
But it is not that very different though, and also it is only a conception, the conception that the reason why mothers love their children unconditionally is because, perhaps they dont even know, that they know their children very well, so much that even if this world changes them in so many ways, their children will always remain who they are from within. Dont start jumping around with joy because you thought the same thing, things will start to get a little complex. It is indeed very difficult to define what that is, because it is deep within the feelings of a mother, that it is just there, that belief that their sons and daughters will always be the same to them. A little example on how can this be this way: imagine a son to a mother who was very loyal and obedient when he was just a kid, but as he grows up and starts living in a world that he has built, has become ignorant and rash, thoughtless and has no conscience what so ever, for the mother though, he remains the same no matter how much he changes, and how hateful he becomes, the mother somehow truly knows who he is, behind his worldly mask.
Lets get to the complex part, the love between them can be applied to almost in all kind of relationships, to such an extent that one cant even imagine, that it was this way all time. Consider the most complex form of love that to this date has not been defined properly, the love between a boy and a girl. When we think of this, we mostly think of movies and romance, flowers and endless fields, what we fail to think about is that love has got nothing to do with any of it, it is more worldly than we think. The truth is both of them can never love each other the same way, it will always be one of them who loves the other more, and hence the balance. But it does not end here folks. For those who think this is not the truth, will have to think again because, whether they like it or not, they are already living in a dream world, that they have designed prior to their requirements, and they have done simply because, everyone does it with someone, and its all fun. Sorry for sounding so bromide, it is merely because I am not in a relationship like most. Allow me to explain. You cant get to know this from someone like you.
The reason why I say this is because, I have come to a conclusion, which is always subject to change as you can never say anything of this world and its changing nature. But it somehow fits, and I cannot change anyone's view but merely give my own. Loving someone special is like being in love with the world, the difference lies in knowing and adopting this truth, that you cannot truly love someone if you are not prepared and are afraid to face the consequences, if you are not confident in your love, thus if you are not any of these then you are susceptible, so much that you become hesitant to do whatever you can, and by any means to obtain that which you love; be warned, that if you feel this way, it is not love, it is merely, obsession, that blinds you from this world and its people, more importantly, the people who love and care for you. But I shall not leave you here reader, I shall tell you what true love is, or try atleast.
Remember far back when I told you about unconditional love, well, that my friends is true love, and it is not necessary that it be between a mother and her child, it could amongst anyone, for anyone, and by anyone, that is the complexity of it, ironically also the simplicity of it, or maybe not. You get the point, if you truly love someone, then be sure about it, because the journey that you shall go on from here will be the one in which, you are the true lover, who does whatever he/she can to prove it, and in the process tries to understand how much it really is, and on the other hand the one that you truly love, will spend their life trying to understand your love, and in the process try to love you equally as much, with both of you failing at every attempt, but only to realize the greater truth, that cannot be found here in this world, and the journey shall take you there, to your common victory. Indeed, very few are those who get to go on such journeys! So remember, no two lovers can equally love each other, but obviously compromise, we are so good at that.
If somehow you feel that this is not the case, then try to not go against the odds in which the world tries to stop the both of you, if you fail, you will realize then it was not your love but your obsession, in which your partner was merely an accomplice, for what other reason would you want to go against the world, other than fear! People who love do not fear, and the people who truly love, understand that fear, and will always believe, will always love, will always have faith and shall take it to their graves if they can, for their love is unconditional, and unshaken. So the question is: Are you up for it? For it is the road least taken!
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